It's not the first time I've been asked what have been the influences on my life that have allowed me to flourish in my personal and public life. Contemplating "success" (as I stand with my feet in the chilly Spring Atlantic ocean), I am happy. The sensation of the ocean breeze, the smell of the salt air, the cool sand and the sharp tingle as the water breaks over my feet... I am alive, and I am happy.
Success is being open to your own potential and not being afraid of it:
1. Listen: to others, without your own inner monologue getting in the way. Really pay attention to what people have to say.
2. Respect: yourself first: don't sell yourself short. And then, respect others: avoid the inherent noise based on what people look like, sound like, dress like..
3. Trust: your instincts. If what someone says sounds wrong to your inner self, it probably is. Do the research. Check things out. But trust your gut.
4. Focus: keep your eye on the ball. Set up your plan (short term, mid-term, long-term) for your goals for yourself. Review regularly. When you need to be flexible, do it.
5. Leap: and don't be afraid. All that stuff about doors closing and windows opening-- it's true. Don't be afraid to take a chance: "I wonder what would happen if..."
6. Enjoy (I know, I said Five things, but...): don't take yourself too seriously. A sense of humour and a smile always helps.
